Dating/Domestic Violence
At the Lincoln University RSVP Center, we are dedicated to empowering our community with knowledge, resources and support to prevent and address dating and domestic violence. By understanding the signs, risks and preventive measures, we can work together to build a safer, more supportive environment for everyone.
Understanding Dating and Domestic Violence
Definitions:
- Dating Violence: A form of abuse that occurs in romantic or intimate relationships. It can include physical, emotional, psychological, sexual or financial abuse by a current or former partner.
- Domestic Violence: Abuse within a household or intimate partnership, often involving patterns of controlling and coercive behavior, including physical, emotional or economic abuse, stalking and threats.
Key Statistics
- 1 in 3 Women and 1 in 4 Men experience some form of physical violence by an intimate partner during their lifetime (CDC).
- 43% of College Women report experiencing abusive behaviors in relationships, such as threats, harassment or physical violence (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence).
- 1 in 5 Women and 1 in 20 Men on college campuses experience sexual assault, with many assaults occurring within dating or intimate relationships (RAINN).
Signs of Dating and Domestic Violence
Recognizing early warning signs can be crucial in preventing abuse. Some signs include:
- Control: Monitoring whereabouts, limiting access to friends and family and excessive jealousy.
- Threats and Intimidation: Using threats, manipulation or physical harm to control.
- Isolation: Discouraging or preventing connections with friends, family or support systems.
- Financial Control: Restricting access to finances or employment.
Ways to Stay Safe
- Trust Your Instincts: If something feels wrong, it probably is. Seek help early if you notice red flags.
- Develop a Safety Plan: Prepare a list of trusted contacts, plan exit routes and keep emergency essentials on hand.
- Stay Connected: Keep in touch with friends and family, even if a partner discourages it. Isolation can increase vulnerability.
- Use Campus Resources: The RSVP Center offers confidential support, advocacy and referrals to local shelters and resources. Contact us today at rscpcenter@lincolnu.edu.
RSVP Center Support and Resources
If you or someone you know is experiencing dating or domestic violence, reach out to us. The RSVP Center provides a safe, non-judgmental space where you can discuss your experiences and access the help you need. We offer:
- Confidential Counseling and Support: Our trained staff is here to listen and guide.
- Safety Planning: Personalized plans to help you feel safe and prepared.
- Community Referrals: Connections to local shelters, legal resources and health services.
Let’s create a campus culture of respect and safety. If you or a friend are in need of assistance, please contact the RSVP Center for immediate support. You are not alone.
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