Consent
Understanding Consent: The Foundation of Healthy Relationships
Consent is essential in any healthy relationship, and it empowers individuals to set boundaries, respect each other and communicate openly. At Lincoln University, we encourage all students to understand and practice consent in their interactions. A clear, enthusiastic "yes" is necessary — anything less is not consent.Consent: It’s as Simple as FRIES
Consent is best understood using the FRIES acronym:
- Freely Given: Consent is a choice made without pressure, manipulation or influence of drugs or alcohol. If it’s not freely given, it’s not consent.
- Reversible: Anyone can change their mind at any time, even in the middle of an activity. Consent can be withdrawn, and both parties must respect that decision.
- Informed: Full knowledge is essential for valid consent. For example, if someone agrees to one thing but something else happens, consent has not been given.
- Enthusiastic: Consent should be a positive, excited “yes” — not something coerced or reluctantly agreed to.
- Specific: Saying yes to one thing does not imply consent to other activities. Consent must be given for each activity, every time.
Resources for Support
To have a consent conversation for your student group or class, email rsvpcenter@lincolnu.edu.
If you or someone you know needs more information about consent or support related to relationship boundaries, the RSVP Center and the Rise Up Foundation are here to help. These resources provide confidential support, educational workshops and guidance on healthy relationships and boundary setting.
Let’s work together to create a campus culture of respect, where consent is practiced and valued in every interaction. Understanding consent helps us all foster safer, healthier and more respectful relationships.
Request a consent conversation today!